For those of u who thinks u r depress or the whole world hates u

A friend show me this online journal of this guy who is her gf's sis's friend (or bf, we dun know). Quite a sad fellow who, to me, i think dwells in self pity...


This is his site - http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=alyxinaus

And my comment to him is... or to anyone who feels depress or thinks the whole world hates u... hope i can present u these words and may u find peace & strength...

My comment:
Why dun u say how many days u actually were not sad or depress...

ANOREXIA is not when u don't want to eat... but a mental sickness (need the help of a psychiatrist to actually get well) where by a person thinks they look crap or keep thinking they need to lose weight or need to eat less and stop eating right or properly, and therefore becoming skin n bones and still think they are not eating right or not skinny enough.

THIS WORLD HATES U SO MUCH... why are u so affected? in life not everyone will like u... but there will be the few who actually LOVES u... These few people may be your parents, these people may not be your parents, they could be friends or relatives, but there are definitely the few who cares... So STOP taking them FOR GRANTED & Live for those who loves u & STOP complaining.

DRINKING is to enjoy... if u r taking it to rid you of your problems, that is childish. Maybe u will grow up someday...

Let me leave u with a few tips that hopefully u will learn and LIVE a FULFILLING LIFE and instead of making everyone around u pity u, u can actually make people around you HAPPY! DEPRESSION IS CONTAGIOUS. Depress People make everyone else around them depress. Happy people make everyone else ard them happy.

TIPS:
(2 quotes i learn from my cousin)

1. "Do not trouble TROUBLES, unless TROUBLES troubled you."
meaning don't worry unless the problem is already in your face. So be happy and life your life to the fullest so people around u will be happy n u in turn can be happy. And have a good influence towards others and they might start to like you more - IF you think e whole world hates u.

2. " SELF PITY is like digging your OWN grave & ASKING PEOPLE to cover it FOR YOU. "
meaning, what you are saying and acting is really very much SELF PITY... so stop self pity and do something about it... Dont expect people to do it for you when u dun help yourself. IF you think depression is a problem ask for help. There must be a helping hand aroung once you acknowledge that you have a problem, wants to solve it and ultimately be happy! If you think u r not trying to get people to so call "cover your grave for you." Think twice... coz if its not that case, then why are u so much in self pity... what is the point of pitying yourself for having such a sad day when u dun do anything to make it a better day. There is nothing as such of "dun have a choice" if that is wat u r thinking. You have a choice to react in any ways wat life throws at u each day. Meaning YOU choose to either be SAD or HAPPY. To accept things or whine/complain about things and let it affect you and ruin your chance of even having a good life.

GOD BLESS YOU and May you take the active role in your life & live it to the fullest.

Cheers.
A person who came across your journal.