Pollipop Collection

I've been a supporter of "Pollipop" by Grace for a while now and decided I shall mentioned the label today.

The label started with the sale of Bylthe clothing, creating dolly fashion launch seasons, style and lifestyle. Over the years little cushion creation, lavender sachet, babushka dolls, badges, buttons, hair clips and ties are the master works of this "Mistress Grace" who has an eye for colour and fabric.

Hand picked and widely sourced fabrics are her specialties.

So here are some of my collections and how I wear them:
Hair accessories Collection



Badge/brooch Collection - handy to wear with an obi sash or pashmina shawl.

Contentment, Happiness, Gratitude & Respect

A friend forward me one of those circulating e-mails today and the subject heading is "80/20 Rule - Lesson of Love".

I've always understood the concept and apply it to life in general to live in contentment, happiness, gratitude and respect to those who have provided & cared for me. And I agree, people dwell too much in what others have that they don't get, the need to constantly compare, and never contented that they turn into "ugly" souls. They end up miserable, causing unnecessary competitiveness amongst their friends, hurt love ones and miss the bigger picture. There is no stopping anyone from trying to attain more or go for their dreams, but if you let all these comparing cloud your sight and mind, you will either not ever see the dream, or reach there feeling miserable.

So, here's the content of the e-mail. Hopefully, it might help enlighten others to live a more fulfilling life.

Interesting quote from the movie 'Why did I get married?'
In most cases, especially in relationships, you will only get 80% of what you NEED and you will hardly get the other 20% that you WANT in your relationship. There is always another person (man or women) that you will meet and that will offer you the other 20% which is lacking in your relationship that you WANT And believe me, 20% looks really good when you are not getting it at all in your current relationship.
But the problem is that you will always be tempted to leave that good 80% that you know you have, thinking that you will get something better with the other 20% that you WANT
But as reality has proven, in most cases, you will always end up with having the 20% that you WANT and loosing the 80% that you really NEED and that you already had.
Be careful in deciding between what you WANT and NEED in your life.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. 'Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. But it's not her Wynona Rider features that got me. I'm crazy about her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not'

Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did.

Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 80% of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 20%. Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature .

You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laugh no matter what she says: 'I broke my arm yesterday, Hahahaha . . ...'

Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pajamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt Or because your husband is the quiet
type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host.

But wait! That's only 20% of what you don't have.

Don't throw away the 80% that you already have!

That's not all. Add to your spouse's 80% the 100% that represents all the years that you have been with each other. The storms you have weathered together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.

But faithfulness happens when you start thanking God for what you already have.

But I'm not just talking about marriage.

I'm talking about life!

About your jobs.
About your friends.
About your children.
About your lifestyles.

Are you like the economy airline passenger that perennially peeks through the door of the first class cabin, obsessed with what he's missing? 'They have got more leg room! Oh my, their food is served in porcelain! Wow, their seats recline at an 80% angle and they've got personal videos!'

I guarantee you'll be miserable for the entire trip! Don't live your life like that. Forget about what the world says is first class. Do you know that there are many first class passengers who are miserable in first class -- because they are not riding in a private Lear Jet?

The main message:
If you start appreciating what you have right now, wherever you are, you are first class!

Simone Walsh - handmade silver pieces

As many of my friends know, I love originality, handmade goods, independent/local designers, unique or outstanding styles. Admirable qualities. Today, I will mention Simone Walsh. You can read about her ideas, how she works from her blog.

The link is:

http://www.blog.simonewalsh.com/

She uses mainly "0.5mm sterling silver sheets as it’s her favourite thickness to work with", and she creates wonderful pieces with it, matching up with silk necklaces.

Pieces I fancy are as follow:


You can find her shop at:

http://www.simonewalsh.com/

Alternatively, if you reside in Adelaide, you can find her pieces in selected Adelaide shops.

Happy Events - Double Happiness

After a heavy post with lots of hits and number of comments from people round the world who cares, its time to bring up the numerous Blissful pairings that are happening around me from March 08 to Jun 09! I haven't heard that many news of couples committing their vows in 1 yr!

1. The year started with dear Tracey Conilione (colleague) becoming a Punturere in March.
2. Pauline Wong (PLC) becoming a Ho in August.
3. Mahalia Suhendro (PLC) becoming a Bolung in October.
4. A couple I got to know over the years in December.
5. Candy (PLC) in January 09 in HK, which I'm going to miss out on.
6. Christina in January 09 in S'pore, which I'm arriving back just in time for it.
7. Bessy (PLC) in March 09 in Melb.
8. Yue (PLC) in June 09 in HK, who has invited me as a "sister".

That is 5 high school friends in a span of less than 1 yr... I've also heard a couple other high school mates walked the union path this year too. Maybe its the right age/time for ppl to tie their knots?! Although I'm blissfully at ease with my singlehood, I can't help feeling super happy, they took that leap to spend a lifetime with that special someone found. It must take so much reality checks and love to move forward into that next stage in their lifes.

Together we walk
hand in hand
heart by heart
waiting and pushing
motivating and comforting
the path ahead we leap together

In a world where saddness lives, they move forward to forge lifetime happiness, create families and shine light to brighten the darkness of this world. Hope we shall all have.

Congratulations to all you dear friends!

Rose & Ruby

Lets blog about something a bit more light-hearted...

I visit the rose & ruby website once in a while and check out their collection... They use silk and their collection looks gorgeous! The other label that I like the silk garments of is Little Joe by Gail Elliot. But I much prefer the "victorian" look by rose & ruby. Although both uses silk as base fabric, Little Joe's styles seems to target the everyday simple look and Rose & Ruby the vintage victorian look. AS for price, I find that at times Rose & Ruby can be a little more pricey than Little Joe. Maybe because they use more lace trims which cost much more. Gorrrrrgeousssss...

Some photos of Rose & Ruby winter 08 collection:
My fav piece

Cocktail parties

I think of Nicole Kidman's Chanel #5 ad when I see this... classic.

The greek goddess

Spring parties here I come

Mystery Mistress - I love the lace.


And their website:
http://www.roseandruby.com/

Yes, we can.

What powerful 3 words - Yes, we can!

Sums up Hope, Faith, and Nothing is Impossible. Am really glad Barack Obama won. He made such a motivating speech that even I a non-American believes. He is so admirable. Yes, there are alliances to mend for them... "I will listen especially when we disagree"... "I may not have your votes... but I hear your voice... and I will be your president too". Quoting historical events. Such a smart man.

Change is here. I look forward to the day I see a female President standing in White House or even in S'pore.

As for Australia, I hope Kevin Rudd does great things too. He seems much better than anyone that came before too. Maybe these are the new lights in these dark ages of cruelty, malice, ungrateful, lack of courtesy, morals & decency in society.

God bless all.

Things I'm looking forward to...

1. Il Divo, "The Promise" album this Nov

2. Another soon to be trip to Dandenongs for scones, Shepard's pie & tea!

3. Another soon to be trip to "Brown Brothers Epicurean Centre" for mouth watering food & wine...

4. Me starting & finishing "Amber Spyglass" soon, the last book of "His Dark Materials" - Philip Pullman

5. Me starting & finishing "Brisingr" soon, the last book of "Inheritance Cycle" - Christopher Paolini

6. Cirque Du Soleil, "Dralion" April 2009, VIP entry here I come! With Lexie, Richie, Chris & Ching...

7. Hopefully Australia Open Jan 2009

8. MY HK/London/Europe trip June 2009! Which consist of Yue's wedding, seeing PLC girls residing in HK, Rhian & Kerry in UK, Wimbledon, Da Vinci Tour, and visiting Gaeta's gorgeous beach and seeing Tomomi again.

9. If I can get tix to Australian Ballet Production of Sleeping Beauty, it will be Sept 2009


I'm going to make my 27th year a memorable one... ;)

God bless everyone.

A sex society

Bbit sent an article on Asiaone about a gay guy who is HIV-positive and his mother's first reaction is that you got it through sex, therefore its your fault... which, another article of a girl googled about sex caught my eye. She lost her virginity at the age of 12 and has slept with various partners only at the young age of 17. Now she only have sex with her bf as she started learning about STD and insist on protected sex.

It almost seems like people stop themselves from having sex randomly is because of the possibility of contracting something. If HIV, STD etc doesn't exist, is it then OK to be promiscuous? What will the society be like when everyone starts being involved with anyone as and when they feel like it?

If philosophy states that what is right is what the society deems is socially acceptable at that point in time, then will there be a twist in our current society's behaviours now? Most have pre-marital sex, most have more than 1 sexual partner, at least one person you know have had 1 nights. It is so common nowadays and its only the "doctrine" of the last few decades that define the strict roles of men & women that stays on the surface. Will there eventually be a change in what is socially acceptable? What will those who holds and highly regards conservatives views and beliefs do?