An unrealistic dream while you sleep.
A smile or abuse from a stranger.
An interesting or heartbreaking article from the papers or news.
A blog.
Loved ones.
A dream to fulfil.
Positive or negative, its all the matter of perception.
Paulo Coelho says: "Life is made up of our attitudes. And there are certain things that the gods force us to experience. Their reasons for doing so do not matter, and there is no point in doing everything we can to avoid them."
I say: "Face it, experience it, and gain wisdom." It is really in this sequence, no matter how short or long it takes.
On Tuesday, I read an article about James Cracknell in "The Age" World News section. A former Olympic rower who retired after 13 years of professional rowing celebrate his retirement in 2005 by rowing across the Alantic. In 2010, he embarks on the Marathon des Sables, a 6 days journey across the heat of the Morrocan Desert. A test of his spirit, his competitive nature and how the body reacts under extreme conditions.
This reminded me of my Dad's preaching since I was a kid. I'm constantly reminded that we need to seek to challenge and improve ourselves. We cannot be stagnant or we become useless and it's a waste of time.
We should improve ourselves in any little ways we can. We should also remember to reward ourselves in any little ways, so we won't be burnt out and lose the healthy drive. Most importantly, never forget our dreams (no matter how small or insignificant; or big and unattainable). Dreams can help us stay motivated; give us hope to look forward; a purpose.
Jessica Watson is one great example. My idol in 2009. Living her dream - being the youngest to sail solo around the world. She started at the age of 16 on 17th October 2009 out of Sydney, past Chile/Cape Horn, past Cape of Good Hope and this weekend she would be under Australia. This voyage started much controversies around Australia. To me, she was well prepared sailing since a kid, she has a strong passion to pull through it, much advice from those who went before her, one cannot find another excuse to not embark this dream!! I did think the type of despair, fear and loneliness one might feel out in the ocean for months. And then I realise, thanks to technology, she gets to blog and read the many responses from supporters and family to keep her going, to fulfil her dream!
I will leave you with (to me) a quote of hope. Words of Paulo Coelho again.
"When you want something, the whole Universe conspires to help you realise your desire."
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